Dig into—and defeat—your fear of success
Success is difficult enough to achieve without letting self-created obstacles get in the way. For many people, fear is one such barrier—one that prevents us from accomplishing everything we want to do, no matter how strong our skills are. What are we so afraid of?
• Change. You might fear that success will affect your personality and change you into someone different. Or that you’ll have to play a new role, or perhaps conform to someone else’s rules of behavior. In order to succeed, you need to develop a strong sense of your own identity in order to stay in control of your life.
• Compromise. We’ve all heard of people selling out in order to get what they want, exchanging their principles for money or fame— or being seen that way. Adjusting your goals isn’t dishonest, though. Remember that you won’t be able to please everyone. Be willing to adapt to circumstances instead of clinging stubbornly to an approach that won’t work for you.
• Responsibility. Once you’ve reached a certain level of success, people will expect you to maintain the energy needed to get there. You may have to give up some personal freedom in order to avoid slipping back. Make sure you really want to live up on the peak. If not, find a new goal that you can be more comfortable with.
• Worthiness. Do you feel that you really deserve the success you seek? If not, you’ll sabotage yourself before you get there. Build up your confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people, learn to ignore those who tear you down, and remind yourself that everyone has a right to be successful and happy—even you.
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